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” Would you date outside your race?”
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People always asked me, “what are your thoughts about dating outside your race?” The answer always seemed straight and easy to answer. At the end of the discussion, it’s not about race but my choices and preferences. Color is a…
Her name was Esther, Part Two
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Nia found love, a kind of love so beautiful and strong it could break the world unimaginable. Her passion is more vital than her own, for her vigor outstands her slightest idea of weakness and that being sorry was not…
” Her name was Esther” Part 1
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Her name was Esther, the first girl who liked her, who said she loved her. In her cognizance, she thought, Oh, of course, she does. Nia didn’t understand what Esther meant by then. They met at the nail shop, and…
“After all, She Was Good” Part 2
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Ava felt a sense of urgency, seeking advice from her best friend, Esther, who had faced a lot of displeasure concerning black love and relationships. For her, anything that has to do with black love trauma’s her past. For Ava,…
“A Letter To My Younger Self”
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Growing up as a child, I would wake up to an environment full of hopelessness; I am not too fond of that word because it never worked for me. In aggravation, I wanted better. I wanted to be better. I…
“Happy Valentines Date”
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What is the purpose of a relationship? People enter relationships for many reasons; benefits, fun, short term, long term, marriage, or open, others a mutual friendship. Before going out on your first date, you should know your purpose and intentions.…
“Love can’t contain Her”
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She wanted to cry, but she couldn’t. The tears couldn’t hold the betrayal, the feeling when she thought “John Doe” truly cared but didn’t. The times when he made her look the victim, blamed her for his mistakes. During those…
” Your Life’s Catalyst”
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You have failed and failed, but what’s worth a smile? Just smile. Sometimes when you feel like you’re not achieving, think of what you’ve done in the past; your capabilities. I have been unable in lots of ways, feeling drowned,…
“It’s the Love For Her”
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Feeling crazy Feeling touched Like the breeze of the cold, I feel his warmth yet freezing. His hands feel dead, like the shadows of the dark. His legs between her legs His caresses she feels numb His kisses alive yet…
“All Nigerians are Not Scammers”
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As a humanitarian, I seek others’ welfare when it comes to a country, a continent, and a nation. Often I hear people say, “All Nigerians are Scammers,” it occurs to me the person saying it becomes the suspect. I have…